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Low Stress Bets Memo #10- September 30, 2026

Sep 30, 2026
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Everyone has their own version of it: that one bet that came agonizingly close. 

Maybe you remember it because it was for a massive potential profit. Maybe you remember it because it almost proved your thesis was right.

Regardless of the reason, that "near miss" sticks in your brain for a specific behavioral reason:

Deprival-Superreaction Tendency 

This mental model highlights two human cognitive biases:

1) Pain of loss vs. pleasure of gain: the loss of something (such as money or other objects) hurts almost twice as much as the pleasure of obtaining it, especially for something that was almost obtained. 

2) Irrational loss avoidance: people take more risks to avoid a loss than to realize a gain.

When bets lose that look like they were going to win, the brain treats that almost-won money as if it were already in your bank account and stolen from you.

How this hurts decision quality:

1) It prevents people from deploying the appropriate amount of capital, even in instances when they have an advantage, because they are trying to protect their downside

2) When a near win becomes a loss, the natural instinct is to try to replicate the exact bet ("revenge betting") soon because a victory was so close


The Link to Serious Sports Betting

Is fear of previous losses preventing you from betting like you should?

Former NFL coach Herm Edwards told us what to do in 2002:

To prevent Deprival-Superreaction Tendency from happening, here's what to keep in mind: 

Before you place a bet, assume that the money is gone. Even when the bet is going well and looks promising, realize that nothing is settled until the game is over. Don't start thinking about what you're going to do with your winnings until they are in your bank account. 

If you are already feeling the effects of a memorable loss, here are three ways to get past Deprival-Superreaction Tendency:

  • Acknowledge Sunk Costs: That "almost-won" money never belonged to you. Once a game settles, that loss is not coming back.

  • Decouple Your Recovery: You do not have to win capital back in the exact sport, market, or wager type where you lost it. 

  • Decouple Outcome from Execution: Assume every outcome contains variance until the final whistle. Go clear the loss from your mind and refocus. From there, get back into your process.

 
 
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